The Case of the Wandering Eyes
I came back from lunch with one of my galpals. The food was yum..Italian..my favorite but there was something a little rotten with the ambiance in the restaurant...and thus this post was born. Why do men carelessly check out women when they're on a date? In between bites of spaghetti, we notice this dude checking out some girl..not subtly ,which would be the kind thing to do, but blatantly, in yo face checking her up and down. The problem with this story was the guy had a girlfriend, who saw the rude display of scoping also. She looked so upset. I feel bad for the girl, because I've been there..even my friend at lunch has.
Ok, I know men are visual creatures and they have a hellava lot of testosterone...that can't be changed. But come on, isn't there anything to be said for having some respect for your date?? Its not like us women don't see better looking guys out there when we're on dates with you, but you do your business and have a quick glance, and no harm is done. A lot of guys, on the other hand, would rather peruse over some random chicks body with their glassed over drooling eyes looking like they're imagining her in ways even a XXX rating wouldn't be acceptable for.
I just don't get it. All it does is make us feel insecure and we have to go through the whole mental play-by-play of why this random girl can capture our dates attention instead of us. Then you ask us whats wrong...ahhhhhhhhhhh!
Why why why I ask!?
posted by desi diva at 11:09 AM
2 Comments:
Men are just not sensitive enough to notice or maybe choose not to take note of the hurt and disrespect it may cause to women.
However, there do exist the gentlemenly types who do check out females subtly!Ask my boy friend!!He even discusses his observations with me!!:D
Sonal - Thanks for responding and I like your site..I checked it out too. Thats cool that you're bf shares his checking out with you. I'm not one of those jealous types who believes the man I'm with should never look at anyone else. My only problem is when its done without respect or regard for the girl. So thats awesome you can both openly talk about it..consider yourself lucky!
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