Whats Love Got To Do With It
Love. Its sought after. Cried over. Dreamed and written about. Its the air that we breath and without it we're forever gasping. Ok.What's all this hoopla that I'm writing about? Well, what I'm wondering about Today, is whether love is all that we cracked it up to be. Are we more in love with the image of Love then what love actually is?
Hollywood and the media have long touted the horn of love, making it seem that its something easy. They give us empty promises that we're all going to fall in love and those who haven't are substantially missing.But I really think what they are talking about is more Romance/Lust. Since love has an existence created of more than just hugs and kisses.
To me, Love is caring for a sick friend, wanting to stay with your boy/girlfriend, even on those days when you fight like a bunch of crazies, saying sorry to keep a relationship from dissolving, even when you know you're right. Its compassion and commitment. It's not easy. It's something you grow into over time. And when you've found it, it like a shadow..never leaving your side. It's one of the most overused words in the English language, but seldom understand its magnitude. It's not sending a Valentines Day card because it's the norm, but giving your girlfriend a back massage after a long day of work...without being asked. Its accepting those around you and giving yourself to them..completely and unconditionally.
Thats the kicker there. Unconditionally. How many people do you know who've said they unconditionally love you or someone else, but to disappear when you really need them. Its only when the going gets tough, that you truly realize who actually loves you. Thats why I welcome the rain in my life. Because I would rather share my happiness with someone who has been there for me during my darkest days than people who's love is fleeting.
Unconditional love is rare, but if you are able to find it, consider yourself very blessed. So, for all those people who you love or hope to..think about what the word really means to you before you use it next time. Are you ready for all that it entails? And have the people in your life who've said it to you, fulfilled its responsibilites?
Just something for you to ponder.
Wishing you all love.
posted by desi diva at 6:02 PM
5 Comments:
nice post .. i'm starting to get addicted to your blog now :p
mb - Glad to know my blog is time-worthy for you. And hopefully you will never have to go to DesiDestiny Anonymous!
Love is what you have when you are playing the game passionately without looking to score points.
And after three straight sets, you lose. Hee haw!:D
Nothing much else to say.
Very nice post. You've got it down.
Sanith - Thanks for the compliment and poem. Had to say a big "awwww" after reading the poem (now where all I have to do is find the guy from the poem!). Btw, thanks also for fwding my blog to Dhupsaya:)
Jax - Ah, the "game" of love. Seems like everyone wants to play it, but not many people know the rules.As for me, I've had better luck trying to complete a Rubix Cube;)
Dhupsaya - Welcome! Glad you are enjoying my posts. I'm trying to share my thoughts on life, so hopefully its more of "oh, I've been there" than
"huh?":)
IGD - As always, you know what to say and so profound too:)
Dating Dummy - Welcome! & thks also for the compliment.
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